a. Bring up the 30 min covo b. Bring up the end of week block
Tell him the following :
I realize you had a very long day so how about we just relax and take the night to watch something funny on TV for a half an hour instead?
Would that make the night easier?
Also the week is up for review and I think we both need a night to process our D going to college tonight. That's just as important. DD doen'st need teh stress of us divorcing right now she's made that clear.
I am gonig to suggest we put the discussion of your cooperation wtih the family off for the night so the whole family can be better prepared.
Just take the night to relax.
We will discuss your participation level here tomorrow if the family is up for it. Right now they don't need it and neither do I.