However, it will take some serious soul searching on your part as to whether you could ever forgive your W.
Rant continues As I continue to look back at what transpired with my imploding marriage my animosity towards Wife lingers. I keep rewinding the last conversation I had with her confronting the OM and the introduction to her family and my kids.
First the co worker rebound ….brilliant, wonder how that is being portrayed through her office.
The comment when she said “ it just happened and with tears she says I feel bad”
She comments “ we never talk anymore” no sht Sherlock you are in an affair. Do you think I am going to talk about the weather with you…. My comment “the ONLY talk is about the kids and thru e-mail or text messaging.
The fact that on my birthday three weeks ago she bought me a few things along with a card from the girls, I know this is her way of justifying her actions and trying to have peace of mind.
The true reality from my opinion is how wife feels about having four kids around her and the OM. My girls are g5 and g8 his are g11 and b15. Wife’s day to day organizational skills could but barely keep up with her kids only.
Just to get it off my chest here on the board rather than actually committing the offence, how I would so like to e-mail her mom dad and brother and say “ how proud they must be of their daughter throwing her family away. They must be proud of how their daughter kept the affair going for almost a year before coming clean. Bla Bla Bla……
The fact I have my girls 50 percent of the time is mentally helping me get over this mountain of emotion.
