Yep: you're exactly right. I don't mind if he calls me out at all. Right now there is not a whole lot of discussion going on about issues but there needs to be soon. Honestly, I don't think he wants to bring anything up because he knows - and the kids have pointed out - that I have worked on every single issue he had with me. He's worked on none other than being willing to have a 30 minute conversation every day.
I haven't pushed it this week since he wanted a week to "see how things were" after my conversation with him last Tues. about moving out or being cooperative/positive. That week is up today so I don't know how it will go now. Actually, he's working late tonight so there might not be a conversation tonight. With taking D to college this weekend, I'm not sure I'm up for another big, stressful event (if he were to move out) this week anyway. If he doesn't bring it up, I may not either right now! lol (Well, you know - as long as he continues to not cross boundaries, which he hasn't.)
With all of the above suggestions, etc... I feel very prepared though, for any conversations that may occur.
