Ok I am back to the vacation thing i discussed earlier in the thread as she is bringing it up.

The vacation is already 3/4 paid. She says she still wants to go even though it will require us sharing a bed. She is now asking me if i am still ok with it and i am not sure how to respond. Options i see so far. This is an adventure holiday that she can not go on without me. Don't want to say anymore on the off chance she reads this forum.

1. You have got to be joking.
2. Judging by your current behaviour this would never work
3. We will see how things are then
4. Sure
5. I know someone else interested in going.

So far I have just said i haven't decided what to do with it.

It could be either a chance to reconnect or else a chance to show her that life goes on without her and she missed out. Not sure which is best.