Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[MM78]

I've been thinking about this and trying to get up the courage to give the ultimatum of giving up the OW and having no contact or moving out. I don't expect him to even try to talk to me until the weekend (the board exams are Thursday in another state). I'm very nervous about it though, but I'm clear that this current situation is not good for me, for our marriage, or for my daughters to grow up and think is acceptable.

Still wrapping my head around the idea of moving his stuff out of the family house, but I guess I have to do what has to be done. We'll see what he says when it comes up.