A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

Get some ADs Soleil, it will make going through this tough time easier. I had the same thinking as you "I don't need no stinking drugs, I'm in total control of myself" but at times it's really tough and it's unnecessary. I tried SJW over the counter stuff which helped just a little bit but getting out in the Sunlight and doing physical activities really turned me around (took a few weeks) but now I feel like I can kick ass and take names!

Go see another L, this one sounds like a lazy bastard to me and there are many like him. They're glorified paralegals who would rather wrap up a D and move on to the next, less stress, time etc. They have templates ready where they change your name and file. Get a couple of recommendations if you can or do your research online.

Having said that it may be that there's not much to be gained from this financially if the house has no equity etc. But you'd better find out now so you don't look back and have regrets.

It's mind boggling to me how we the LBSs are the ones that end up hurting financially too in just about EVERY situation. But I wouldn't worry about what he ends up with, I'll look at it as 'I don't need the jackass or his jackshit- I'm smart, I'm strong and I will be OK!'