YOu are right, Rob, I cant worry about what she is going to do,t is her problem. I am going to get my stuff together and plan on making the move. I am going to tell her I am taking the kids with me, until she makes adequate arrangements for herself.
I am meeting with L today at 3 and will hand over the D stuff to him. My W thinks, and I am sure her L is telling her this, that she will get primary custody. I reminded her this morning that a District judge awarded me custody 2 years ago, and that will be a factor in court. I did not need to bring it up, but I did.
She told me with the last separation, I was nasty to her, I reminded her she had an A, and she felt why wouldnt I be nasty this time. I said I dont want a D this time last time I did, that is why I filed last time. She siad you didnt want a D last time either, but I had an A and thats why you filed. She is correct on that one, it took me a while but I was Dbing then and didnt want a D then either.
The friend who talked to her on Sunday, said the W was receptive to advice and blew some off, Friend feels like W is still confused and angry. Friend says there is hope, but it is long term hope. That made me realize this is not going to get "fixed" any time soon, so I have no choice but to move on.
