I am being served tomorrow morning my H informs me.
I am still pretty "happy" inside (Ok, had a bit of a meltdown yesterday--did he HAVE to do this to us on the first day of S14's school--he just entered 9th grade!)
It does NOT mean that you don't want your H. I want my H, I am ANGRY at his behaviour, and I am still very much "happy" about a lot of things--good friends, plans for my future either way, a beautiful home that will be ALL MINE to do what I want etc.
Right now I am very OK with whatever happens--I see good things coming either way. So, with that in mind, what is to be "morose" about??lol. There will be challenges either way, and there will be good things either way. Not a bad spot to be in!
Your parents need to see the "Ok" you. Listen, this wasn't what YOU wanted--but we live in a society where just one person can do this--not YOUR FAILURE!! I personally am so at peace about this because I did do "the work". I worked my BUTT off and no one can make me "feel guilt" about it.
Another benefit of doing "the work". You are not as vulnerable to outside opinion--no one on the planet can "make me feel like a failure".
