I am not bothered that Ken hasn't been around.. His home is turned upside down by a predator to his marriage and a wife who is too immature to recognize that or Ken for his efforts to save a marriage as delciate as a sheet of glass...
If anyone should be attacked its the OM for making his home so difficult to manage such that he cant' always get back here to keep us up to date or help others out...
I would like to think onc ehe's in piecing he will drop by and offer support as well.. but I am thinking he's still dealing with OM terrorizing his home.. I am inclined to cut him some slack...
It only takes 30 seconds to give a quick update, to people who've spent HOURS helping you.
I'm not referring to myself -- many of my posts tend to be prodding, short and snarky. But you and Sandi and others invest a lot of time and care in crafting very personal responses to people like Ken, and I just think they should check in every now and again and not just disappear. I think that's rude.
Since OM doesn't post here, Ken does, I can't tell OM what I think.
It was the way Ken talked in his last post that concerned me.
I guess we all have certain ones here that kind of pull at our hearts a bit more than maybe some others. I would get so frustrated with Ken and would think, "Okay, I'm not able to help him and I might as well leave it in better hands". But I would keep reading his thread, and sometimes I just couldn't reframe from putting in my ten-cents in (inflamtion from two-cents, you know).
I hope you're right, Allen, and one day soon we'll hear how he booted OM to the other side of the globe, and turned his W over his lap and spanked her behind. Call me old fashion....I don't care.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
