Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Even after dropping an A, the feelings of the WAW doesn't return overnight. It takes time. Most LBH's that I've read about want to hear their WAW commit 100% to working on the M.

Yep. You nailed it. That's me. No one wants to be in limbo-land, but I've figured out after being here that it is inevitable after this kind of event. Maybe if I had been a better DB and given her proper space throughout limbo-land she would have come out of it quicker.

She, on the otherhand, is trying her best (we hope)to work up to that line where she can feel that she's willing to be willing. Now I said all of that as if the W did end all A's and has stopped the flirting over Internet.

Yep. You nailed it. She has said many times before we walked into that MC session that she "wants to want to try". But now, when that exact phrase is asked of her from the MC as a gateway to begin the recovery process, she is hesitant to step up to the plate. I understand that. I'm just not going to bring it up for several days and hope she comes to me. If say, by Thursday night she hasn't brought it up, I might ask the community here how to do so. My suspicion would be something like, "I want to make another appointment with the MC, but I need to know where you are in all of this."