Have a great vacation K...you deserve it. Try to incorporate some non healing / self help reading .... moderation grasshopper.

By the way your slut remark reminded me of a quote I once heard from one of Mick Jagger's ex wives:

<<My mother said it was simple to keep a man, you must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. I said I'd hire the other two and take care of the bedroom bit.>>
Jerry Hall