Thanks for taking the time to respond while in the middle of your own "chit pile"
I didn't sleep particularly well (replaying "the tape" in my head) but by the time on your post you apparenrly didn't sleep at all.
I also mentally reviewed a pile of things that a lot of my "new friends' have written on this board and the one thing that I kept seeing was your mention of TIME.
It's early in the game. I need to adjust my perspective on this to be more patient with myself. I need to remember that I am rebuilding my entire life here.
This is about much more than the divorce. This is about other R's as well as this one. This is about deleting what "they did" in the R's and focusing on what I did .This is about analyzing how and why I'm in this situation. What is it about ME that led me to be in this position?
Then UNDERSTAND AND CORRECT those unhealthy views, tendencies, habits and reactions. It's gonna take more than two months to get them right.
