So I told her that I was going to let her go, it was late, and I needed to go to bed. Her next line, "before you go, can we talk about the parenting plan?"
She is only being nice so she can speed up what she wants most in this world right now. I should of known better.
Well, so long as you know NOW, it's okay to just enjoy the "being nice" time and see it for what it is. Don't get sucked into any convos that YOU are not prepared to have yet, deflecting with a "I'm tired; let's talk about this another time when we're both more focused" or whatever.