W is talking a lot about selling the house but not actually doing anything so I called our realtor and arranged for him to come in and tell us what we need to get it listed. I have also been looking around for a new home for myself and my S which seems to be upsetting her even though she is still adamant she wants to separate.
She seems to be obsessed with the little things involved in the split like for instance how are we going to divide the DVD's and not taking care of the major stuff like homes and selling a sportscar we bought this year.
Even though she is the one that wants out ( although her moods are driving me out too ) i seem to be the one doing all the work to break this up.
There is no change in her attitude but for someone who wants something she isn't driving very hard to get it. I am tired of living in limbo so right now I think separation is the best thing so i am going to make it happen.
Initially I thought that living under the one roof was the best thing but now i can see that the longer we stay here the less i remember of the great times we had and how much fun she was and the more I just wonder what i ever saw in her or why was I ever attracted to her.
Hard to believe how 3 months of WAW world can completely blot out 8 great years.
