Hey Punkin, I've had 6 months of no contact and years of tension and walking on egg shells. I think we both reached the point where we thought, enough! Now we both seem to be careful with each other's feelings...no egg shells anymore. Been there, done that. I think now it's just consideration, no more.
Today H emailed me a powerpoint which he also sent to the kids. It was a beautiful one about life's gifts. Then he sent another one about some organisational stuff with daughter. Again it started, "Hi Cas." Second time that's happened.
Punkin, it's just interesting. I am trying to have no expectations. That's challenging! I'm impatient.
Now my thought is to say I will do the financial sep but not d. Once d occurs we co-parent and nothing more. I'm sitting on this for a few days before I say anything.
