You are doing fine. Just know through all of this that you have done nothing wrong. Yes, maybe you have hung on to him and crowded him (in mlc thought) but in general this is all on him. I was only asking about the OW because I was trying to place him in the tunnel. He is deep in their and seems very stuck. Very depresssed. He peeks out every once in a while and threatens divorce, because he erroneously thinks that is going to cure his pain. You and I know that is not true.
You are strong Di. You are learning much about yourself and life. Don't let anything that I am saying stop you from staying on your path. I know that you are a great person and mom. Just keep moving forward. No expectations. But you are allowed to have hope. Hope is permitted here!
