Well yesterday was an interesting day. We actually went out as a family to shop for the kids for back to school clothes. She and I talked a good bit about things and she was apologetic about the situation and the toll it has taken on all of us.

She says her therapist his helping her realize some things. She still says she doesn't know if she wants to be married but knows she doesn't want to be divorced, which doesn't make any sense to me.

Still she is wanting to do more and more as a family. But is still talking to the OM.

Any suggestions?

M/49 H/35
Married 10 yrs
4 kids: B9, D7, B5, D3
Learned of EA June 2010
ILYBNILWU June 2010
Learned of SA July 2010