Donna,
I wouldnt throw all of that away. Throwing them away doenst mean IMO that you are "free" of whatever held you stuck and made you suffer. Keeping things like that, in my eyes, shows strength and power. Because, no matter what happened, those years WERE real and meant so much to all of you. The dream was so symbolic though, like a closure dream.
How are you doing?
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009