My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

Getting my computer back tonite--hallelujah! I can type about 3 lines, then the screen changes and I'm typing blind, so if some of my posts don't make sense, that would be why!

So I emailed Texas guy yesterday, tactfully and kindly asking what he wants/needs from me at this point, because the mixed messages are confusing. Since his visit I've gotten a few great, expressive emails about his feelings, how close he feels, etc. But communication is sporadic at best, perhaps a couple of notes a week. He'll occasionally write about some crisis with his ex or his daughters, or chairing a group of scientists studying the public health effects of the gulf spill, (sometimes I lose sight of the "scientist" aspect!), -- but then I get no followup, even when I ask. If he doesn't hear from me for a few days he'll be very concerned; once when he assumed I had gone on a date Igot quite a bit of communication! And perhaps he IS just busy and doesn't feel any urgency to chat. Who knows--it's so long since I have been in any kind of relationship that I don't even remember what's normal!! But there it is, and I'll be interested in his response--because I truly am at a loss here and I feel like I'm in high school again an I don't much like it!