[quote] Have you thought of offering a complete transparency plan? This means she has access to all of your accounts (and passwords) and can check everything whenever she wants to check?
That might help. But where would be the trust?
I know that when my H cheated on me. The only way to set myself free was to let go of the anger and hurt. It took me years to move on. Your W no doubt is worried and scared it might happen again. Did you not show her how much you loved her and proved you would never do it again once you guys got married? some women just want that security. Cheating is a blow to the self-esteem for the other spouse.
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011