Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

Thanks again TH and Pinhead....I appreciate the words. I am not happy with my current sitch, and I am trying to lead. My values are what is making this so difficult. In one hand, I believe in the sanctity of marriage, and believe that my wife and I should give it our all TOGETHER to try and see if we have a shot. Then in the other hand, I have a woman who will not/can not tell me she loves me, does not wear her wedding ring, and wants to leave.

Throw two children into the middle and you have yourself one nice dilemma.

My mother called her yesterday because it was my son's first day of school. She talked to the wife for a little while and told me what came out of it. It sounds like my mother got the same speech I did. Don't try and talk me out of it, I've made my mind up, no bad mouthing in front of the children, ect. I guess W said that her step mom had already tried to talk her out of it and that it wasn't going to work. So that was kind of reassuring to know that atleast I had someone in my corner. When I talked to W a while back she told me that she told her Dad about us, and that he didnt have anything to say, just "huh".
I think she was upset about it.

I think that I am starting catch on though. I talked to the W for little while yesterday. I talked to my son about his first day of school, and then the W got my daughter so I could see her. Then she just started chatting about random things. She even brought sports, which is weird for her. Things were going so nice, that my spidey sense got triggered, so I decided end the conversation on a high note, and it was late anyways.

So I told her that I was going to let her go, it was late, and I needed to go to bed. Her next line, "before you go, can we talk about the parenting plan?"

She is only being nice so she can speed up what she wants most in this world right now. I should of known better. On the flip side, the parenting plan is very important to me, so I said sure, no problem. We need to get that taken care of first. I told her that I found a web based program that will allow us to pass it back forth for review. Well, I guess its time I start to move forward.