Hi Sa, Lance and Punkin Fil and I have always sort of gotten along wonderfully, because we are very similar soft souls, and we feel warmly to one another. I dont keep in touch as much with him,or the whoel family sadly Its awkward.
I can feel his awkwardness, and his dissapointment with everything I just feel bad for him really, hes such a nice person, could never in a million years fathom a bad word about him.
Anyway, his whole family is down for the next two weeks. Staying with him in his new nice big house
He came to fetch S this morning, and sort of stayed quiet. Its very unlike his personality to be quiet with ANYONE, so i wonder what the silence is about? He can't think of anything to say maybe? Feels awkward?
When I started telling him a funny story from the day before, he just about fell off his chair listening to every detail, telling S to be quiet, cause he's listening to mommy.
the story was about my BFF, she came round yesterday, and I've been telling her that I have 2 boxes filled with brand new unopened dummies(pacifiers) from a project I finished, didnt need them, and wanted to give them to our two friends with babies. She dug through the dummies like a hungry hobo scrounging for food, and hauled out a armful of dummies, clutched them tightly to her chest and said she wants some too....so i laughed, a little maternal she is methinks!!
Anyway, it was supposed to be funny, but he didnt think so, responded 'those two (meaning my BFF and her H) should get to know eachother more before they have babies' ;( So negative ;(
But I think he was upset I was giving dummies away, as we were talking about having another child just as he dropped the bomb (he had been asking for another child) argh. Foot in it I guess Guilt...guilt...guilt...for breakfast lunch and dinner Its awful...I hate it....
Fil and I have always sort of gotten along wonderfully, because we are very similar soft souls, and we feel warmly to one another. I dont keep in touch as much with him,or the whoel family sadly 
Its awkward.