THey don't need a non-fraternizing rule... this is infidelity.. He isnt' dating a fellow employee.. He's having an affair with a co-worker and this ins't good for public image... MOST businesses would be smart enough to put a STOP to it if they get the slightest chance it could go PUBLIC
Definitely if his xwife is a good friend of yorus call her and let her know what he's donig.. AGAIN
Dont ask her for support, just let her know...
HOPEFULLY they will all call your H and he will be DEVASTATED you ruined his exciting little secret and blew it into an embarassing public scandal.
You've been here... Just imagine what is the LAST thing YOU want to happen... and make it happen to OW
The MORE STRESS you bring into HER LIFE the less FUN the affair is and the more HASSLE it becomes.. tha'ts how they drop them... It isn't by reasoning or logic or asking them nicely.. OP end affairs when its NO LONGER WORTH THE STRESS anymore
If its an exciting secret and no one knows yet.. they will keep it up... GET IN THE MIDDLE oF IT AND RUIN IT for them...
Think about high school and parents... they get in teh MIDDLE of things to keep their kids on the straight and narrow...
