I didn't say anything back to her. This was all via FB. I haven't called or bugged her again. Lie - I called her office phone to make sure she was at the office and not in Japan with him.
Post a sample of your confrontation with the four points on facebook
Expose her by name and what she's doing to your marriage.
Do NOT attack your H at all... present HER as the predator to your marriage and the obstacle to its repair.
Invite everyone on faceboook to confront her and press her to end it.
Don't cry, don't name call, don't threaten... state the facts with maturity, dignity, and intelligence.
You want to appear as a model adult here while she gets accused of every childish act under the sun...
You are basicaly humiliating her in public.. slowly piece by piece until she caves
