I'm new and need advice

[lovehurts]

This all makes sense. I've thought of this scenario and it scares the sh!t out of me. He told me early on after the bomb that if I was to force him to make a decision right then and there, he would leave. I'm not sure he feels the same now but I'm a little scared to find out. I believe I could do this...even thought of it after this week and a half of finding I'm very capable of being a single mom. When he comes in the door saying, "decide or get out"

I have to say, though, I feel like this contradicts what I've been reading about staying and being a friend. No R talk, to OW talk, show a pleasant side at all times even if that's not what you are feeling. I thought that's what DB was based on.