W came down, I was on my laptop she began to watch Frasier on DVR. After she finished she said, lets not take our kids to bars anymore. I said first off, sont accuse me of anything, I took the kids to a wing restaurant last night for the Hall of Fame game. I told the W we sat in the restaurant section which is sectioned off from the bar, thy have a kids area and the kids had fun playing with other kids. I finished with, I had never been there before, go check it out if you would feel more comfortable, and that the kids had a good time eating and playing with other kids. She softly said, OK and went to bed. It was not an argument, like it would have been before, I did get a bit defensive but I was not irate like before, I was calm and would not let her convince me what I did was wrong, I am there father and will not put them in harm's way. I made myself pretty clear, and difused the situation and took the lead.
