CD don't knock yourself. I'm a firm believer that things happen the way they happen - period. If they were supposed to happen a different way they would have.
The comments here aren't there to somehow 'punish' you but rather there to show you where you might do things different. So don't pick them up like weapons to beat yourself up with. You've done enough of that over your lifetime.
Ok, you probed because you saw 'something' in the meeting. So be it. You did what you did because you did it. Who knows ultimately why? Maybe so you don't do it the next time? Maybe so you do because it will look different? No one can ever answer that. Our lives and all the people and events are so complex we can never truly know what the effects are for everything we say and do. It's way too complex.
CD how long have you actually been here on the boards? If I remember correctly you changed your name right? Have you only been here for 2 months?
Overall I think you did great. You are working it. Nobody ever does it perfectly.
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