I find myself reading a lot more these days.... that and posting uh... elsewhere.
Do you want to know something SOB. Many times I'm jealous of your sitch because, had I woken up when I was your age, my marriage might have had a better chance of turning around like yours has.... I waited way the hell too long to wake up, stupid me.
When I would start to post to you I'd think, "What can I do to help him? If I knew anything I wouldn't be here myself."
That being said - I think it's great how you and your W have improved you sitch so much. I do remember some of your early head-banging episodes. So cool how far you've come.