Let me caution you that going to MC during replay does not usually work. Often the MLC'er will use it as justification to end the marriage rather that work on it.
Also you are reading GAG's thread. Remember that she is already divorced and her husband is not in replay anymore. Generally the first three stages of MLC are running away and the last three are rebuilding. There are slight differences depending on the stage that you are in.
Hang in there with the JT, although you must keep in mind what I said.
