CG- you are correct- I won't mention my things at all...let him bring it up! I don't remember hearing it is good to leave stuff. I know that it can be a manipulative ploy some people use to ensure seeing the person again but I think that is waaay too much game playing (unless we are talkign DBing with a spouse, I guess).

CW- yes, being cautious is wise...I am thinking of it like this:
wow, that was fun (REALLY FUN) seeing zoobrew and if I never see him again, I am still grateful for the experience! Also I tell myself "this rendezvous/fling/tryst etc. will come to an end soon!" Hopefully that will help me to prepare for when it is over!

Also, I have to say that today I had a weird burst of energy and was able to clean like I haven't in months! Gee, wonder where that came from? wink


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004