CG- you are correct- I won't mention my things at all...let him bring it up! I don't remember hearing it is good to leave stuff. I know that it can be a manipulative ploy some people use to ensure seeing the person again but I think that is waaay too much game playing (unless we are talkign DBing with a spouse, I guess).
CW- yes, being cautious is wise...I am thinking of it like this: wow, that was fun (REALLY FUN) seeing zoobrew and if I never see him again, I am still grateful for the experience! Also I tell myself "this rendezvous/fling/tryst etc. will come to an end soon!" Hopefully that will help me to prepare for when it is over!
Also, I have to say that today I had a weird burst of energy and was able to clean like I haven't in months! Gee, wonder where that came from?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004