I am sorry I hurt you now. I am sorry for a lot of things I've said and done in our marriage. I accept my complete 50% responsibility for the state of our marriage.
Originally Posted By: Steady
Did you ever tell her this before? If you did, you don't need to repeat it again.
Honestly, I don't believe I have with as much sincerity. I'm sure I said something similar after the bomb but likely came off as 'pleading/apologizing/anything to change this'
Originally Posted By: Steady
...this is really weak. You lost some respect for this one.... I wouldn't even bring the old - well, if things change let me know - stance.
Yeah , again, I got "some" stuff I needed out there but just didn't hardline it enough. I got "soft" when I saw her 'hurt'
In retrospect, what about MY HURT, right?
I gotta get stronger. Not what I wanted but better than what I would have done before DB. I just have to take how I feel NOT with her and carry it into dealing WITH her.
"Hold On to Your N.U.T.S" is on the way. Hopefully ingrained before NEXT meeting.
And thanks for this:
Originally Posted By: Steady
Don't apologize for 'making' her cry. You can't 'make' her cry.
