Well, all I can say is that I feel much better. I certainly have a better mindset than I did. I am "thinking" the right things.It's simply now going to be a matter of acting the same. And for the most part I'm doing well.
I just know it will be more difficult face to face. I haven't seen my W in 10 days. And I'm gonna start at a mediator today so the D will be topic of coversation. I just have to keep "my future" (which I can happily picture in my head) in my mind.
I need to stay on task and keep thse things in mind-
-everything she asks doesn't require an answer (thanks, Sandi2!) -I KNOW I have to protect D2 and I. -it will be easier/less stressful when the sep Agrement is done -W is likely having less fun than she was. A's burn out -the less she gets from me, the more she has to rely on OM. And he isn't capable. -I have the best support network -listen more; talk less -speak with a smile and confidence -need to get her to sign a bank doc and give me a pay stub NOW -I have the interim banking figured out; dose of reality
Thanks, Sunny.
7 hours til mediator.
Well...geez....I posted a whole long response to this earlier today and now I don't see it posted! My laptop was acting screwy though, so who knows! Oh well... too late for my advice anyway, with the upcoming mediator meeting because now it's already happened.
