a. Your husband can think negative b. Your husabnd can feel negative c. Your husband can share negative thoughts or feelings within the family d. Your husband can act negative within the family
Clearly a and b are his and don't bother touching them, but c and d you call him on...
And ya, according to MWD if you set boundaries on c and d then those boundaries will slip into a and b eventually anyways... He just doens't know that part lol
Good practicals here. I need to go back and re-read DR. I've forgotten so much of it and gotten off on all the other material that I've forgotten some of the good stuff from MWD. (Although, the other stuff has been really good as well!)
Tonight H is acting very withdrawn again - and went straight into the office to play XBox whereas he's been being more considerate of that and of doing our nightly homework, etc... first. It probably has something to do with the kids calling him on his CB last night. That's my guess, although, S16 is not home. S14 and D are though.
I am going to go politely ask him about doing the homework... see where that goes.
