Do you think you have wasted anymore $$ than your H has?
Next time he brings that up just tell him you've done the bookeeping and you both have wasted money...
If you want to do the work and add it all up that would even be beter... I strongly suspect you will find he's wasted no less than you have...
He is accusing you of financial infidelity, but he really doens't have any case here... It's just him being accusatory... And yes I still suspect its a smoke screen
It definitely is. When S16 called him on the Facebook/texting issues, he immediately started on me and finances. It's his justification for feeling the way he feels towards me and the M. Reminds me of junior high school, having to point fingers at me instead of just owning up to his own behavior.
I may have wasted a little more money than he has, but certainly not without his knowledge and certainly not this "huge" sum more. It would be difficult to go back and figure out, but you know what? I think I'm going to try! That's a good idea. He can't argue if I can put it in black and white. (Although I'm sure he'll still find fault.)
