He cited that one of the reasons for dropping the d-bomb was because I was a saver and he wasn't. I thought "isn't that a good thing? I'm not the kind of woman who is spending your money.".
I saved because I saw his spending pattern. We can't both spend that way or we would go broke. I thought I was doing a good thing. And no I wasn't going to coddle him like his parents. I wanted to lead by example.
