I'm pretty sure he's not in contact with her, because he has taken the passcode off his phone and I've been able to see when he's here if he's in contact with her. I'm also just trying not to obsess about it, because it will drive me crazy. He knows that if he wants to come back to the marriage he has to be fully committed, so I'm giving him his time to reflect on that.

I am going to check around with friends to see about a consult with a lawyer. The whole prospect freaks me out, but I know I need to do this for myself.

Thanks Tristan.

Last edited by packergirl34; 08/10/10 12:53 AM.
Me: 34
H: 34
S: 8
D: 5
M: 10 yrs
T: 12 yrs
Affair: 7-1-10 (lasted 2 months, I caught him by reading emails, there was no sign of stopping until I caught him)
S: 7-16-10