Cas05 Since this is on their time not yours and you can't fix it, the MLC'r has to let the wind take them until they go through all the stages. You have to outlast the MLC if that is what your end goal is. Your end goal may change. Just keep reading. You have been here way longer than me. I am impressed with your patience so far. It looks like the key to this all is to understand it before you decide anything that is something you regret for the future. I keep remembering something I read where the MLC'r comes out of it and asks LBS, "Why didn't you fight for me?" Don't know if you want to end up in that spot/situation. It feels like we are in those Michael Fox movies like Back to the Future. It is as if our spouses are stuck in a time warp and you get to take the time and improve yourself along the way. Then they come back to the future and you are the one they want to chase. Does this make any sense?
