And for Sandi2, An elderly couple behind us at today's baseball game said this is the second game that have seen your family and wanted you to know that your two kids are the best behaved they we have seen. W and I just looked at each other and smiled.
These two children will always the hook that will keep drawing the two of you back into each other's lives.
Chuck, I think your W is having an A with with some man at her place of work. Why would any mother put that many hours into a week and not see their children? Why would she be getting dolled up and wearing low cut dresses? The only thing I believe would drag a woman back to work that night (after putting in 10 or more hours that very day) would have to be another man. It all adds up.
I think you were getting her attention. I loved the things you were doing! Think she was really a little jealous for a bit.
I don't see her going to the C if both of you have filed. I don't think she wants anyone telling her to live her life any differently than what she's doing.
I believe you are going to be fine, Chuck. It will be painful, but you will get through this and move on with your life.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
