I'm new and need advice

[lovehurts]

Allen:
There is only so much one can include in these posts and I tried to hit on everything that I thought mattered.

I'm fully aware that my H needs education. This cycle is identical to what happened before. It's been brought to his attention in our counseling sessions and he sees it. He's just not in a place to do much about it yet. I'm not so sure he's not going through a MLC.

My ultimate goal is to break this cycle and show our boys that marriage is sacred. That when you take vows it's forever. That when you have problems, you stay and work them out. You don't run away when it gets hard. All 3 boys! I can't not have those boys in my life. I love them and they love me.

It is my hope that we can come out of this stronger and more self aware than ever. I'm well on my way there....he has a long way to go, but I'm willing to hang in there while he works through this horrible time and discovers who he really is...because I know when it's all said and done, he's an amazing man. I feel like he's lost right now.