Sex and money is managed as a couple in a good marriage. Choices are made in that area as a couple, not independently.
hmm .. i read the articles. by me having a emergency fund, does that make me guilty of financial infidelity?
he knew about this fund. i never hid it from him. he was aware that i had saved money for an emergency. he just called it a "waw fund" because he always thought i would leave him - he was sure he wouldn't leave me because he wasn't the kind of person who would use the d-word so liberally.
i think every woman should have a "in case he leaves me" fund.