you guys crack me up. no wonder you are so sexually frustrated. fight with your wife over cookware then demand respect and validation over it? jeez louise. if you really need respect and validation in the kitchen something is wrong here. go eat at the club.
nice job john, this episode now will fade into oblivion and you can later address more founded issues in your relationship. around page 150 in DB, MWD writes learning how to avoid these petty arguments. I think a lot of people skip over that section.