Good for you! He didn't rescue or fix. Stated the violation of boundaries and stood up for you. I do recall before that he has said that he has feelings for you, I believe he is an emotional mess at the moment so he didn't bring that up. He has to hit rock bottom before he can come back up. I hope he is on his way to seeing that he has some major work to do.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory