She is also going out of town next weekend to a party/weekend in “OM land” (and has claimed there is no contact of any sort anymore, and has “shut down” that FB page and email address, though I have no way to verify (haven’t installed a keylogger yet))…staying with a friend there. She did ask for “permission” and says she understands my anxiety in her being in OM city, and I said it was “OK” and that I would be fine if she goes, so guess it’s on me.
Ugh. Don't you think it's a little early for such a trip? What is her connection with this city, other than OM?
I'd suggest installing that keylogger BEFORE she goes.