Don't know how to respond as I don't want to divorce.
So the alternative is to be in this marriage the way it is?
You own your own business that breaks even and you work 8-16 hrs a day, what's the payoff in that?
You seem to settle for getting by instead of thriving.
Your wife trades her services for lunch/dinner dates. She asked you if you had any problems with that, she wanted you to fight for her right then.
She doesn't respect you or trust you to look out for her best interests.
If you want to have a shot at this then figure out what you really want and stop sending threats to her.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
