well i just text her and told her that if she is unwilling to cut off all contact with him that I was going to cut off all ties to her. She responded asking that if she don't cut off all ties to him then am I going to file for the divorce. Don't know how to respond as I don't want to divorce.
Also a couple times it's been noted that I did his job for him. I didn't do his job, I did her job while she did his job.
You enabled her to do his job; that means you did his job essentially.
I wouldn't reply to her text; you set your boundary. Let her contact you. I wouldn't have done any of this via text, but that's cuz I'm an old fart. Talk in person, or on the phone.
