I think you should read SunnyD's thread... Her H wants to move out and there's no indication that he's cheating on her at all.. He's miserable and doenst' want to work on the marriage at all...
i've been following sunnyd's thread a bit. i can see the parallels. my h doesn't want to work on the m and he's miserable. but i have no children which makes it easy for people to tell me to give up.
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She's trying to turn him around...
i'm listening ....
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From what I have read conflicts over finances is the most common reason for divorce, not infidelity
hmm .. i thought it was infidelity. finances were somewhat of an issue between the two of us. i was the saver and he was the spender. but we were not in any financial trouble.
he used to joke about me saving and he called my savings the "waw fund".
it was probably the smartest thing i did because it turned out that it was a "in case the h dumps me fund".
the only reason why i survived the entire ordeal without any trouble is due to this emergency fund that i had saved up.
h thought i wouldn't be able to survive without his paycheck. i'm just fine. i made other sacrifices but i don't need excess.
