I did threaten her last week and told her that if she didn't at least try to work things out like promised that I would try to go after at least part of the house as I could be vindictive and show that all the earnings were from me. I told her that I refuse to let the OM destroy our M and that if our M was to be destroyed I will only accept it if we could not work things out after trying.
Threatening, coercing, blackmailing. All very attractive traits, right? Sure to win her over, right? THINK.
Originally Posted By: lonelyguy
We had a verbal aggreement that if we ever got divorced that I we would keep everything we went into the M with. I would get the business, she would get the house, etc.
Live up to your prior agreement. Breaking your word now, will show her your true colors.
Originally Posted By: lonelyguy
Also I honestly don't believe that the are sleeping together. Before her surgery, we were still trying to work things out and were even intimate a couple times. He didn't start spending the night until after the hospital. Since her surgery had to deal with her stomach she still has at least 3 weeks before she is cleard from the doctor to resume sexual activity. In a few weeks, who knows...it's quite possible.
Dude... Even I'm not this blind. There's lots you can do before cleared by a doc. Plus they always make that waiting period a lot longer because they know horndogs won't wait.
Originally Posted By: lonelyguy
She also told me that the talked and a R wouldn't work for them as he is very religious and it would interfere with his religious beliefs. I call that BS because if he is religious he wouldn't be breaking the 10th commandment by coveting my wife.
You're being cuckolded right in front of your eyes, and letting her feed you this story? They have chutzpah!
Originally Posted By: lonelyguy
So I guess I'm back to square 1, as I can't move back into the house since it is in her name and if I demand to be there she would probably try to get a restraining order on me. Any other way to get him kicked out of the house?
For starters, don't do his dang job! Tell her to put her actions where her mouth is; he moves out, you move in, she breaks all contact with him. If she says no, then you cut all ties to her; this should be a NUTS (Non-Negotiable Unalterable Terms) for you.
