(My standard disclaimer is that I'm brand new here, so the vets could totally disagree with me.)
Ok, you can't move back into the house. But you can stop helping and enabling her. She's legally blind, now has another health condition surfacing, etc., and she wants a divorce, let her handle her business on her own. Don't run to her rescue. You can matter of factly state (as you would to a friend), that if she needs help with her medical appointments, to let you know, but other than that I wouldn't cut the grass or help her out (or him out) with those routes at all. If she thinks she wants to live alone or with someone else, let her have at it. House problems will come up and part of the natural consequence of not having you live with her is that she will have to figure out how to handle it herself. Like the guys said, she has her cake - and you are feeding it to her too.
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10
