Well it isn't so easy to move back into the house. The house is in her name only and she had it since her first marriage. Also she has been the breadwinner most of the marriage as my business barely breaks even every month. However there are alot of legal aspects to this as my wife is legally blind (not totally blind, she can see just not perfect) so she is on disability. The routes and all her other jobs are under my name. We fudge our taxes so that we don't pay any taxes on the newspaper earnings that net over $30,000 a year. By not reporting it, we could never got the house refinanced into both our names.
I did threaten her last week and told her that if she didn't at least try to work things out like promised that I would try to go after at least part of the house as I could be vindictive and show that all the earnings were from me. I told her that I refuse to let the OM destroy our M and that if our M was to be destroyed I will only accept it if we could not work things out after trying.
We had a verbal aggreement that if we ever got divorced that I we would keep everything we went into the M with. I would get the business, she would get the house, etc.
Also I honestly don't believe that the are sleeping together. Before her surgery, we were still trying to work things out and were even intimate a couple times. He didn't start spending the night until after the hospital. Since her surgery had to deal with her stomach she still has at least 3 weeks before she is cleard from the doctor to resume sexual activity. In a few weeks, who knows...it's quite possible.
She also told me that the talked and a R wouldn't work for them as he is very religious and it would interfere with his religious beliefs. I call that BS because if he is religious he wouldn't be breaking the 10th commandment by coveting my wife.
So I guess I'm back to square 1, as I can't move back into the house since it is in her name and if I demand to be there she would probably try to get a restraining order on me. Any other way to get him kicked out of the house?
