I was the one that exposed the affair to MIL/FIL. H told them he was moving out because we weren't getting along. He moved out in Aug, moved in with OW 1 Oct. Once I exposed to them they made things difficult and he actually came back late Oct for 4 days. But then he talked to his sisters whom collectively have 7 divorces between the three of them. They all told him that he should follow his heart and that his parents were blackmailing him. A day later he left and has not been back since. I have tried to stay in contact with MIL/FIL but the past few months they have not responded much. My husband has bladder cancer and had his bladder/prostrate removed in Jun and they have not talked to me at all because h and sisters have them convinced that sons are not talking to father because of me. I am fighting a losing battle and realize that no matter what I tell them they will believe h especially now that I know OW has been to their home.
I have told MIL/FIL that I am NOT giving up on the marriage, that I love their son and will not divorce him.
